Being Forced to Decide will be your Litmus Test

“How many key life decisions are you forced to make during your life?

Most people don’t like to be forced to make any decisions, let alone the key life-changing decisions. When confronted with a decision they tell themselves things like, “Let me think about it,” or “I’ll get back to you later,” or they just don’t decide at all hoping that if they wait long enough it will go away.

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The phrase, “Not making a decision is a decision,” won’t hold up when it comes to choosing how you’re going to live the rest of your life. The litmus test is, will you choose to live in both the material world and the spiritual world in balance,? … or will you continue to allow the material world to have total control over you?

What you are really being asked to decide is … do you want to live a balanced life “in both worlds,” or continue struggling from living in just the material world?

The reason you get stuck in the material world is that you run your life on autopilot. Everything you decide is a reactionary response to the lack of time you think you have. But others who are living in both worlds simultaneously have the same amount of time you have. How do they do it? At one point they decided to stop letting their life be controlled by the autopilot imposed by society. They decided to shut it off and then things got quiet.

The things they used to think they needed to do were gone. Are you a news junkie who constantly monitors what’s going on in the world and worried about what you can do about all this unfairness? Are you mad about who’s in office and making the new laws? Are you upset about all the inequities in the world and constantly wondering, “how could I ever make a difference?”

Once you shut off these outside stimuli what you will find is a new level of clarity in the quietness.

You will be able to reconnect with us and ask us to remind you – what you should be doing and why you should be doing it. This is how you reconnect, and as you do so you will not only find yourself living in two worlds simultaneously with ease, but that you enjoy living in the spiritual world with the material world, together.

So, what you are really being asked to decide is, “Do you want this balance, clarity, and ease in your life, or do you want to continue on autopilot and be forced to battle the storms?


  • People do not like to be forced to decide.
  • Living in just this world, they hope that if they postpone the decision an answer will magically appear.
  • When that answer doesn’t appear, they hope the decision they need to make will just go away.”

HOW IT WORKS: The litmus test occurs when you feel the pressure of being “forced” to decide. This is when you realize your life is on autopilot and that you have been living in just this world. You have been disconnected from your “real” self and your Spirit Guides. At this moment it becomes obvious your life is not in balance. You feel lost and alone.

However, when you are connected you don’t feel the pressure of being forced to decide, even though you see that a decision needs to be made. You don’t panic about having to make the decision. You get quiet and breathe, and let the decision come to you. Now, both worlds are working together on it. This is only possible because you know you are not in this life alone. You are indeed living in two worlds. You are connected.

Take 15-minutes every day to get quiet, breathe, and write in your journal, My Guided Journey, about what you are noticing that is out of the norm. These could be little or large, but they are both taking you to your intended destination. The more you practice this 15-minute time out, the more you will see what’s really going on. You will see what was missing from what used to be your repetitive meaningless life of living on autopilot in just this world. ~ Linda Deir

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