“Struggling to be heard?
People always complain about the fact that nobody listens to them. It’s not that nobody listens, it’s that nobody hears what you are saying. You might talk about something important, but people ignore you by talking over you and/or muting you out.”
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How we get these insights The italic text within this post is the channeled information from Linda’s spirit guide
Recall the time that you had someone who willingly listened to your most pressing concerns and observations. Your connection to them is what brought clarity to your life while healing that relentless ache in your soul. It’s how you figured things out. This was proof that you can’t do this alone no matter how strong you think you are or how well you’ve done in the past.
So, where did this “someone” go?
It ended when you started thinking you didn’t need any help. You didn’t want anyone to know about the problems or questions you had. You became convinced that it might be a sign of weakness.
Now, there are many things bothering people, especially you.
You wish you had someone to talk to about it. Just being heard is a huge step in any healing process. It allows whatever is bothering you to be brought out into the open. It no longer keeps you stuck, when it becomes real for someone other than just yourself. Once a person hears another, and if they have empathy and compassion for that person the healing has already started.
It’s not like the person you talk to has all the answers, they may not have any answers. It’s just that you talked about it with someone else, and got it off your chest, so to speak. Just taking that one step makes you feel better and more connected. In taking this first step you will feel more connected to others and to the universe.
The universe consists of a Oneness where everything and everyone is connected through consciousness. If you deny yourself the experience of realizing that everything living on this planet has some level of awareness, you will remain disconnected.
You must get past your ego telling you that you can figure it out all on your own.
If you were such a good problem solver, then why do you have all the problems you have right now? Practice opening up to others and verbally sharing your concerns with them. Then, do the same for them by listening to them, hearing with an open and present heart, hence, allowing them to start their healing process. You will find that the two of you will have a new mutual respect for each other and can’t wait for the next time to talk with each other.”
- Do you have a feeling that as you go through life nobody is hearing you?
- Do you think that by hearing what others say is an imposition on your time?
- Without communication back and forth you will never have your issues resolved.
How It Works: Really hearing what someone has to say has become rare. People are constantly distracted and overwhelmed with things to do. As a result, you may have resorted to speaking louder or repeating yourself. If you are doing either one of these things, it’s because you are not being heard. This is damaging as it distorts who you really are. It becomes a habit and changes how others perceive you. Of course, it’s not you, it’s you attempting to be heard by those closest to you. The price for tolerating this becomes someone even you do not like. When you can see the reason you are acting the way you are, only then will you have the power to change it. By that time, you will be ready, willing, and able to do whatever it takes to reclaim your true self. The fast track to moving through this is unearthing the root problem, so you can hear yourself. Keeping a journal of your progress and setbacks is the key. Here’s how to get the best out of your journal writing. ~ Linda Deir
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