- The takeaway from this episode is … you will never give up again once you realize you have help.
- Here’s what this will do for you … you will be able to stand your ground and do what’s right for you.
- Here’s what I want you to do with it … track yourself daily by writing about what was unusual and out of the ordinary. From this perspective, you will be able to see the truth. Giving up or giving in will be off the table.
What does it mean to never give up?
Some people quit smoking “cold turkey,” giving it up all at once, and never look back. These are the people who never gave up on themselves. For this reason, they were fully committed to giving up the cigarette habit even though it was hard to do.
Others can’t do that, they “try” to give it up by giving in a little at a time when cutting back but they continue to smoke. Trying is not doing. Some of these people will eventually quit, while many more will lose interest entirely.
The difference between never giving up and giving in starts with a commitment. It starts by creating a plan. Together, these will greatly increase your odds of success. The harder it is to give up the more you must plan.
When people are living a fear-based lifestyle they give in … a lot!
They think, “oh, it’s okay to give up a little of my freedoms to feel safe.” They look at each element of their lives and their societal interaction, awaiting the mandate instructing them to give something up, then allowing them to do it a little at a time. Doing what they are told relieves them of their free will.
So, which comes first, action, or commitment?
In order to have an effective outcome, the commitment must come first, otherwise, the action you take will be weak. Most people learn the lesson of either never giving up or giving in when they get a diagnosis from their doctor who tells them if they don’t stop smoking, they will die. It’s the reality shock of hearing that if they don’t change their ways something drastic will happen. Finally committed, they give smoking up.
People need to learn when to say yes, and when to say no, or no more. The problem is, when confronted with a fear-based decision, people say yes, a little at a time when they don’t mean it. The little yeses and compliances along the way eat away at their life, creating a life of one compromise after another.
It’s important that you learn to say no, or no more, this way it never gets to the point where you lose something valuable little by little – YOU! The choice is yours, you will never give up, or you will continually give in. Giving in will destroy you.
Since most people will die having lived a fear-based life, you need to examine where the fear lives … inside you! Are you making decisions from fear? Are you allowing fear to take things from you that you love? If you don’t get control over your decisions by doing the right research to make decisions from, you will never live out your desired destiny.
You must see that you don’t just give up a bad habit or an outdated belief all at once – it’s gradual. You “gave in” many times before you “gave up.” Giving up happened from a series of compromises over time. Never giving up is derived from having a strong belief in yourself, knowing you can do it.
CALL TO ACTION:
Make the connection to your Guides and you will realize that you have a choice to never give up or give in again.
Just because most of society has been conditioned to give in doesn’t mean you have to.
Remember … giving up or giving in will cause you to lose touch with the reason you came here. You did not come here to live a compromised life.
HOW IT WORKS: When the odds are against you, never give up … you have help! This is the moral of my story, Guided. This is the dedication in Guided …
“I dedicate this book to those who have guided me, my life coaches, my best friends, my spirit guides. Thank you for your infinite wisdom, teachings, patience, your impeccable timing and clarity, and your unyielding love and support. Thanks to my Spirit Guide Angels, I have lived to tell my story. Without all of you, I wouldn’t have made it – I wouldn’t have wanted to.” ~ Linda Deir
No one ever said life would be easy, however, like me, you were never expected to do it alone. You came here to learn so you could overcome your shortcomings. It has everything to do with your free will. You will either choose to realize what you came here to do and take the action to achieve it … or give in, once again.
- Giving in will require that you do what you are told to do.
- Never giving up will not allow you to give in.
Even though the odds were against me right from the beginning of my life … I never gave up because I had help, I had my Guides guiding me every step of the way, but it was always my choice to move that way, or not. ~ Linda Deir