We Show You Where to Look, Not What to See | Linda Deir -author, speaker, transition coach, trainer

“This is a lot like the phrase, “You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink.”


Well, why not? Maybe the horse isn’t thirsty (you don’t feel the need to see why it would help you), or maybe the horse doesn’t want to be told what to do (resistance).

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Linda Deir took this photograph of her Spirit Guide Angel when they appeared to her at Christmas time 1994About Linda's Weekly Guided Insights






Why is it that you can be led to what you are being guided toward but cannot see it?

It could be that it’s too small, or it could be too big and right in front of you and you still don’t notice it. Many things look alike and indistinguishable from one another.

Seeing something that’s unique may be easier to see. That’s because its uniqueness is scarce in your world, catching you by surprise. Uniqueness brings value to the world that you can’t get anywhere else. It’s rare.

There are too many choices and too many distractions that keep you from seeing what you need to see. When people have the opportunity to learn something or see something new, why do they miss it? Many people can’t see opportunities. An opportunity is laying right in front of them and they don’t see it.

You can’t see it when you’re in, but your Spirit Guides can.

Most of the time they miss guidance when it comes through in its many forms, like dreams that people say they remember but don’t understand – they’re missing the guidance the dream was conveying. Many times, people are so distracted that they can’t see danger when it’s staring them right in the face.

Some people are looking so hard that they don’t see it.

You miss things that show up in places you didn’t expect them to be, like when you are looking all over your house for your keys and they are laying on the table in plain sight. It’s easy to miss something you are not looking for even when it’s right in front of you.

You miss things you’re not expecting, like a relationship. You see someone or meet someone and felt there was a moment, but you never follow up on it. You missed it because you didn’t see the opportunity. So, a relationship can show up anywhere, a job offer can come out of left field, guidance can pop into your mind or you have an intuitive hit at the oddest time, and you miss it again.

So, how do you get to the point where you can be brought to a position of seeing new things and not miss them?


  • Many things cause you not to see something that’s right in front of you.
  • Sometimes you are just not present in the moment and it passes you by.
  • Other times your beliefs act as a filtering system for what you want to see and what you don’t want to see.

HOW IT WORKS: People miss guidance and opportunities because they are not present. They are bombarded with one distraction after another. The distractions have become so common that they seem normal. It’s a series of reactions, rather than taking deliberate action. When your Spirit Guides and Angels send you guidance that shows you where to look, you need to look, so you begin to see what it is showing you. Most people are moving too fast to catch any of this. That is why they keep missing the guidance and the opportunities that would have made their lives easier and much more interesting. ~ Linda Deir

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