Forgiving others is unnecessary when you don’t take things personally in the first place.
In fact, forgiveness doesn’t even apply when you see things and accept them for what they are. When you can see things for what they are the judgment never starts and therefore, there’s nothing to forgive. Forgiveness is only necessary after getting off to a wrong start in life and the hurt you’ve taken on turns you into a victim.
Forgiveness is the result of taking things personally as blame and judgment take on a vicious cycle. The universe fulfills this belief as you draw more of what you believe to you by projecting it onto others. This becomes a way of life. When it becomes this overwhelming it takes something like “forgiveness,” as a last ditch effort, to interrupt the cycle and lift the pressure that has been blocking your life and keeping you stuck. Stuck in what has become a habit from your interpretation of what you believed happened at that moment in time.
When you have a communication bridge to your spirit guide angels, they reinforce how forgiving others is unnecessary because you don’t do anything out of compromise.
Even if you were selected out by someone who bullied, rejected, blamed, or picked on you, it’s only as relevant to you as you claimed it and owned it as your own. If you did something that deliberately hurt someone else, forgiving yourself won’t stop you from doing it again. The resolution does not come from forgiveness, it comes when you look deeper into understanding where this is coming from within you. Even if you know better than to hurt someone else, especially the ones who don’t deserve it, this discontent will continue to cause you to project your own hurts onto others until you have healed them. Where did it come from? When did it start?
Putting this off any longer will only continue to erode your life. There is nothing beneficial about carrying this around. However, healing it will help you reconnect and be more tolerant of others who are suffering from what used to be your affliction. This makes the concept of “forgiveness” look ridiculous and superficial. To forgive someone is like giving them a free pass to avoid dealing with the real problem.
So, since forgiving others is unnecessary the only one you need to forgive yourself. That’s because you are the one who got you off track in the first place.
You can forgive yourself as a temporary measure to unhinge yourself from repeating past mistakes long enough to figure our how your pain and suffering took over your life.
All this suffering is unnecessary. It’s caused by living a disconnected life that leaves you drifting around looking for yourself. Until you resolve that, you will continue to seek out willing and unsuspecting victims to play into what validates your own suffering. At some point, you will be faced with you, the only one who can fix it once and for all. Everyone else will be glad for the day when you no longer do things to them that cause you to seek their forgiveness.
So the next time you hear someone promoting “forgiveness” you will see right through their superficial and thoughtless approach to actually dealing with the problem. Until they do that you can be sure they will continue to depend on forgiveness. ~ Linda Deir
“Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past,” ~ Lily Tomlin
Looking back, when did you last forgive someone or ask to be forgiven? Or, when did you realize that forgiving others is unnecessary? How did that ultimately work for you and them?
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