“People are impressed with news reports about couples who have been married for 50, 60, 70, or more years.
It’s rare to find them together and still happy with each other. You live in an age where more marriages end badly than survive like these long-timers. So, what is the secret?“
When you look at the couples who have been together for a long time you find that they understand who they are individually and together. They don’t hide things from the other person, and they accept any faults the other person has. Most of these faults were known before they got married. These couples have adapted to living their lives together while still allowing the other person to be who they are.
Long relationships require a solid connection.
It’s the connection that allows the relationship to thrive. They know what the other is thinking and many times they finish each other’s sentences. When one of them feels bad the other one does too. Therefore, many of these couples who are together for decades die right after the first one does. They don’t want to go on without the other, it’s like a plant who loses its nourishment.
For as long as these relationships have gone on that people think are incredible, we have news for you – we have been with you longer.
We have been together forever. We have watched you come into and exit from many lifetimes. We were there when you were born – pure and conscious, still connected to us. However, throughout your lifetime the connection to us waned and many times faded out completely. So, when you come to us for advice and clarity there’s nobody who knows you better who can give you the direction you need at the exact time you need it. Even though your connection to us may fade, we are with you whether you realize it or not, or act on our guidance or not.
From our perspective, it’s better for a person to understand who they are and be alone than it is to compromise just to have a relationship. Being alone is a powerful force that only a few have learned to harness.”
Even though we are tied together for eternity, you still have the free-will to affect our relationship.
Many of you discover your reconnection to us in your later years. This relationship with you has always been there even though you may not have realized it. Since we are your Spirit Family that you have always been a part of, of course, we are always there to greet you when you return home, along with the other souls who you have had a connection to in your most recent life, as well as other lifetimes. Your relationship with us is fully restored at that moment. That’s when you realize we were always your family, but only once you crossed over. You instantly acknowledge that your life could have been easier had you known we were there. You always knew we were there you just didn’t talk to us. Every time you felt something was missing from your life you thought or remembered, as a child, when you used to ask us questions and got answers.
- We have been with you in all your lifetimes.
- You are enamored with couples who have stayed together for long periods of time but compared to our relationship – that was just a blink of the eye.
- Relationships are based on knowing yourself first, only then will you know for sure who your real friends and family are.
HOW IT WORKS: Imagine … having a relationship with your spirit guides, angels, and others. They listen to your thoughts and concerns without you ever asking. They know all about your dreams and encourage you to follow them. They guide you toward your victories and see you through all your challenges. This connection to them brings out the best in you. They always tell you the truth. This relationship will help you overcome obstacles and solve problems, reaching your highest potential. Your Guides are your compass.
No one in this world is as loyal and dedicated to you than your Spirit Guides, Angels and others you have a connection to. Like the couple who have been together throughout their lives and then one of them dies, I can’t imagine having lived my life without my Spirit Guides and Angels, I wouldn’t have wanted to. They are the only ones who have helped me make sense of this chaotic world. ~ Linda Deir
A mix of Spirituality and Unexpected Psychology … Linda Deir Transition Coach … guidance from “those” who know you best!