- The takeaway from this episode is … being accepted for who you are, is the least you should require.
- Here’s what this will do for you … you will realize why being who you really are is more important than ever.
- Here’s what I want you to do with it … being who you are requires that you remain conscious. To ensure that you remain on this path, invest 15 minutes daily writing in your journal about how your life is going.
NOTE: The “italic text” within this post is channeled from Linda’s Spirit Guides and Angels
Everyone wants to be accepted, it starts in school.
You want to be part of the group, the kid everyone likes, the kid chosen for the teams on the playground. You certainly don’t want to be the last one left that someone has to take. The worst feeling you can experience is to not be appreciated and accepted for who you are … after all, you worked hard to become who you are, or so you think.
Being who you are doesn’t take a lot of work, becoming more than you were before you got here does.
Is who you are really who you are, or is it, someone you made up so you would be accepted? Look at the people you hang out with. Do you fit in because you made compromises to who it is that you really are? Secretly, do you beat yourself up over this? How about the people you work with or your family and friends? Do they judge you for who you are when you are being authentic?
Does “who you are” change when you are at work, at school, or in relationships. You can have so many versions of who you are that you can’t keep them straight. It can get to the point where even you don’t know who you are.
Not understanding who you are has led you to the wrong people.
Have you been in relationships where you are needy and that’s why you’re in them? When you enter into a relationship based on neediness you want things you hope the other person can give you or do for you. This is a recipe for relationship disaster right off the bat.
When a person really knows who they are they aren’t anxious to rush into a relationship. They are willing to wait and not chase relationships they know would be disastrous. Yet, people keep picking the same types of relationships repeatedly, all because they don’t understand who they are.
From our perspective, it’s better for a person to understand who they are and be alone than it is to compromise just to have a relationship. Being alone is a powerful force that only a few have learned to harness.
CALL TO ACTION: Start your Self-Examination
- Who you are is never what you do, it’s who you have become up until this point.
- Do the people you surround yourself with tend to make judgments about who you are? Go where you are celebrated, not tolerated.
- Some people attempt to pound a square peg into a round hole when it comes to relationships. Start a relationship with your Guides because they know and appreciate you more than anyone here.
HOW IT WORKS: Being a chameleon, a people pleaser takes a lot more energy than just being who you really are. That’s not to say that you can’t change and evolve, as that’s how you become more than you were before you came here into this lifetime. However, pretending to be someone you are not will only wear you down and confuse you. Worst of all, it builds on itself making it harder to be your real self as time goes by if you can even figure out who that is. In the end, being an imposter only fools you. ~ Linda Deir
RELATED ARTICLES:
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5 Reasons to Stop Seeking Acceptance From People Who Are Committed to Not Accepting You – Huffpost
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The Path to Unconditional Self-Acceptance – Psychology Today
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10 Reasons Why People Who Don’t Need Others’ Approval Are More Likely to Be Successful – LifeHack
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When You Begin to Accept Yourself, These 10 Amazing Things Will Happen – LifeHack
If saying ‘no’ means in my experience that I am always overruled (not accepted) and that the consequences are punishment, or being ignored (not being accepted once more) – and I am aware of it that this is a pattern – do the guides know how to change the believe pattern?
You have no control over those who tell you “no” or ignore you. That’s not your pattern, it’s theirs. How you react is where you have the control and will determine whether you allow them to continue directing this behavior toward you. Being overruled and ignored conveys that you have no value to them. Until you remove yourself from the situation, emotionally or physically or both, will you be able to stop this cycle. You can’t see it when you’re in it. Accelerate the process by taking the journey in “My Guided Journey.” Join us tonight on my Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/lindadeirauthor/ to see how your Guides answered you.
Thank you Linda, Ray & Guides! This is really taking away the pressure from me and gives me the space I need to breathe and be myself. I will take responsibility for my response by saying ‘that is an interesting way to look at this situation, I have never thought about it in that way. I need to come back to you’ (this is the best response EVER❤️!! Feels really good!!)
Viola, there’s nothing better than getting solutions. That’s what your Spirit Guides and Angels did in their response to you. They are the clearest source of information.
Linda,
I am interested in channelling and using the board you created. Where do begin?
Since my NDE I was being guided. I would pray for help and the next day I would met someone or read something to help me.
Start by getting one of the three versions of Ask The Universal Channel®. After that, email us and ask to join our “Ask The Universal Channel” secret Facebook group: info@channeledreadings.com