Hanging Out with Smart People | Linda Deir -author, speaker, transition coach, trainer

“What kind of people do you like to hang out with?

Look at the different types of friends you have. Some of them are funny people. You get together and laugh a lot which makes you feel good, and maybe gain an appreciation for humor.

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How about the group you hang out with who are the relationship advisors? They are more than happy to get together and deal out their expert relationship advice, however, none of them seems to have a stable or loving relationship. Perhaps this isn’t the group you want to consult with regarding your relationships. Look somewhere else for real advice and much less criticism and judgment.

Next, you have a group of what we call, the party people. You know, the ones who always want to meet for drinks, the ones who never want the party to stop. They’ve been like this since college and have never changed. Guess what? They also don’t want you to change.

How about the really smart people you get together with on a regular basis?

What … you don’t belong to that group? Yes, you do but you have been missing it. We are always sending you guidance pointing you in the best direction at the time, but you question it when it comes through.   

Your friends never want to get together to talk about what they’ve done right since the last time you got together, and share advice on anything that anyone in the group is stuck on and needs direction? This makes you feel too vulnerable, which is why most people do not have a group like this. Someone, they can call up anytime. A few people have that one special friend they can call up and that friend will come right over to help them and listen.

We will tell you that if you continue along the path you are on you will end up being just like the people in those groups. You will look back on your life and laugh because you have attended a lot of parties with your friends. However, you also listened to them complain about relationships, careers, the government, and the world in general.

Wouldn’t it be better if when you looked back on your life and you were appreciated by that one group of friends who knew you better than you knew yourself and always pointed you in the right direction at the right time throughout your life? They never judge you for who you are, or what you have or haven’t done. This is a rare find in this world but not from where you came from.

Everybody has a group of smart friends whether they realize it or not. It is us … your Spirit Guides.

You have a great advantage in that you can ask us for advice anytime. We are with you always, just as we have been forever. Wouldn’t you rather, at the end of your life, look back and say I had the best group of smart friends who helped me become a much smarter, happier, and more interesting person?


  • Experience different groups of friends. That will eventually lead you back to us.
  • Most of these groups of friends pressure you to be just like them.
  • We are here when you are ready, without all the pressure.   

How It Works: No one knows you better than your Spirit Guides, not even you. They know why you are here in this lifetime and agreed to send you guidance every step of the way on your journey. So why don’t people listen to their guidance? It’s mostly because of distractions. Until things go wrong and you find yourself without direction do you even consider what you have been missing or how you got lost along the way in the first place. Your life doesn’t need to fall apart before you recognize this guidance exists. Start writing down the guidance you are always receiving in your journal. It will be a lifesaver. ~ Linda Deir

A mix of Spirituality and Unexpected Psychology … Linda Deir Transition Coach … guidance from “those” who know you best!