Nothing Is Happening to You by Accident | Linda Deir -author, speaker, transition coach, trainer

“You have heard people say, there are no accidents. What does that mean?

Does it mean it was planned all along? Did you bring it upon yourself? You may not remember agreeing to it but you did, it was part of your contract. Your spirit guides and angels considered you brave for accepting this life experience. You all knew it would not be easy and that you would need help. That’s what your spirit guides signed up for.

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Now you are thinking, why would you include such things in your life? The answer is two-fold. First, it was so you could experience the lessons you came here to learn and, secondly to resolve acquired karma.

Why did you have to experience this? Even though you most likely do not remember those other lifetimes, you did something to someone with or without thinking it through first. That’s how you acquired the karma.

Why does it have to work like this?

It’s because we are all connected to each other, to the earth, the animals and plants, the environment and extending out into the cosmic universe. Whatever you think, feel, and do, effects the universal consciousness. It has a huge ripple effect.

Therefore, before you send out any negative energy you must be cognizant of the consequences of what you are doing. You are a small, but very significant part of this consciousness.

You are never alone, just … al-one.


  • Who said there are no accidents? Wasn’t that an accident that happened to me? No, it wasn’t, it’s been building up for a long time, but you were not paying attention.
  • Why would I agree to have bad things happening to me? Nothing ever just happened to you, it all happened for you.
  • I didn’t realize I was so powerful.   

How It Works: Only when people realize how powerful they really are, do they take any of this seriously. When people are reckless with their treatment toward others the karmic buildup backfires on them and they are the ones who take the hit. This isn’t punishment, it’s a wakeup call delivered from their soul reminding them that this needs to be healed once and for all.

Your soul knows why you came here and what you intended to resolve this time around. If only we stopped resisting it, paid attention, listened, and wrote down our inner conflicts the moment they showed up we could resolve the karmic residue and buildup almost instantly. The speedbump you will encounter is the ego. The ego will not want to cooperate, causing even more karmic damage than you came here to resolve. Again, this is why it’s important to document your inner conflicts and frustrations, so you can see for yourself what needs attention without your ego dominating the situation again, preventing you from seeing what’s really going on. ~ Linda Deir

A mix of Spirituality and Unexpected Psychology … Linda Deir Transition Coach … guidance from “those” who know you best!