Stop Asking Me How I’m Doing, by Linda Deir

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People are always asking “How are you?” The standard response is, “I’m fine.”

It doesn’t sound like people are fine. You can feel it. You can hear it in their voice. In fact, they are anything but fine. By asking them the question, “How are you?”…   you have caused them to lie.

How we get these insightsLinda Deir's Spirit Guide Angels talk about Stop Asking Me How I’m Doing   The italic text within this post is the channeled information from Linda’s spirit guide angels …

You caused them to do something that was possibly uncomfortable for them – lying about how they really are.

Making them lie is bad for their energy and yours. 

People are masking their true state of being. They are pretending or exaggerating.   Why do they do this? Are they afraid of who they really are? Are they ashamed of how they are doing?

People tend to tell others how they would like to feel when asked, “How are you.” It’s difficult for people to be honest about themselves. There are others, however, who aren’t shy about how they are. They are abrasive and complaining. They feel inner pain and want to share it with anyone who comes along. 

Asking someone, “How are you?” or “How are you doing?” can be dangerous questions that open up opportunities for lying, exaggeration and bad energy. People automatically respond with, “I’m fine,” or “I’m doing well” when they know they aren’t. This puts out negative energy into the universe that must be counteracted.

The next time someone asks you, “How are you?” or “How are you doing?”… rather than keeping it to yourself, you could say, “Some days are better than others” and you would always be telling the truth to them and yourself.”


  • If you have to ask how someone is doing you aren’t listening.

  • Asking someone how they are doing is intrusive.
  • Even when you are doing well you may not always feel well, so which one do you want me to answer?

How It Works: Did you ever think that asking someone “how they are doing” was such a bad idea? After hearing this insight from the Spirit Guides it makes sense, especially in these challenging times. Most people aren’t doing well and it really puts them on the spot when anyone asks them how they are doing. It’s important to be extra sensitive and not put people on the spot. You can assume that many people are struggling and not doing well. Don’t ask them that dreaded question and make them lie. ~ Linda Deir

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