Getting What You Are Looking For
  • Why do you pick the wrong relationships … because your ego is doing the picking.
  • Why do your friends pick the wrong love relationship matches for you … what do they see that you don’t?
  • It’s time to face the truth … keep it to yourself, as this is an inside job.

Getting What You Are Looking For, by Linda Deir

Who Is on Your Love Relationship Waiting List?

Are you getting what you are looking for on your love relationship list of requirements? Waiting for the relationship you deserve, meeting that person who is good enough to be with you. A loving relationship with someone who looks great, a picture of health, is successful, and spends all their time with me giving me everything I want.

Everyone can relate to getting the relationship of their dreams, the one they’ve always waited for. So, why is it so hard to get?

It’s because you are busy looking for it – chasing it. Here’s how it really works. When you are looking for that elusive loving relationship, you will get exactly what you are looking for – a love that’s elusive. What you will find is someone else “looking for” the same thing that you are looking for except it won’t be you. You will just be a placeholder until someone else comes along. That person won’t want you because you aren’t the person on their love relationship waiting list. In fact, you’re just like them looking for the same thing they are. So yes, you will get (attract) what you’re looking for – a love relationship, but it won’t be the love you’re looking for.

The most you could hope for from that person you attracted is to collude with them in your delusional attempt to find what you both insist on getting, the perfect love relationship. It’s a collusion of delusion, a double dose of you.

The lesson is that you can’t chase it by looking for it. If you really want to get what you are looking for you must become what that is. This is a 180-degree course correction from looking for it. Once you become the very thing you are looking for you won’t have to look for it, it will find you.

In the meantime, you will only waste more time if you insist on looking for it.

All you will attract is someone who is just like you are – right now, not the amazing person of your dreams that you described on your love relationship list, who, by the way, is also waiting for “you.”

To become that person you’ve been waiting for – start writing in your journal every day about who that is. Describe your conversations together, the way they make you think outside your comfort zone. How they appreciate you for who you are, just as you are. In fact, this is what they will defend most, as the real you is still emerging.

Once this happens, and it eventually will, you won’t be desperate to find the undiscovered you in someone else.

It will find you. This is the relationship you have been longing for, not waiting for. This is your dream come true and awakening all wrapped up into one. ~ Linda Deir

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GUIDED, by Linda Deir