Decisions Made By Age 19 Determine Your Fate | Linda Deir -author, speaker, transition coach, trainer

“The decisions made by age 19 determine your fate.

This is the message your Spirit Guides send through your natural intuition, always reminding you that your life is important. This becomes increasingly stronger at two primary times in your life; when you are 19 and when you turn 52 years old.

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When you’re young you have to decide what you must study in order to live a meaningful life. Do you want to be an engineer, a doctor, a lawyer, or any profession that requires an extensive education? If your decision was NOT derived from fear, then this is possibly what can give your life the greatest meaning as you grow up. This is an exercise in discovering your personal power.

However, if you made your early decisions from being pressured by fear, as you get older you will begin to feel lonely and isolated. You will realize that with all the education you have and the things you bought and the places you’ve gone, your life has no real meaning. 

Looking back, you will see just how much the decisions made by age 19 determined your fate. It’s not too late to turn your life around, with our help.

All your friends are in the same boat. Their bodies are giving out and cannot stand the stress, just like when they were young. They sometimes see themselves as a worn-out piece of machinery; one that cannot be fixed.

It’s the middle years when you are working so hard that you don’t have time to worry about your life having meaning, you just keep working to pay all your expenses on stuff you thought you needed in order to have a meaningful life.

The key, around age 19, is to follow your inner urge and let that guide you to do what you love and are good at it. For those of you who do this, you have already figured out what living a meaningful life is. Then, when you get older you will become more interesting because of your experiences. That could become the most fascinating time of your life.”


  • You should listen to the messages your Spirit Guides and intuition are telling you and follow closely the guidance that comes through. This guidance is never wrong. 
  • Guidance has a shelf-life. It will get stale if you ignore it and don’t act on it. 
  • Since the decisions made by age 19 determine your fate, start a journal and write down the dreams and aspirations you had then. Let us help you from there – listen for our guidance.

How It Works: Having a meaningful life is all based on those decisions made on or near your 19th year of life. The less fear injected into your decisions at that critical age the better your life will become. Fear shows up when you doubt yourself. The instant you feel that doubt, immediately step back and objectively examine the fear that is about to short-change you. Let your soul’s urge guide you to your calling. This critical moment happens in the late teenage years, usually around the age of 19. It all changes at age 19 so reflect on that time in your life and if you missed it this is when you get your second chance. ~ Linda Deir

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