“Outcomes cannot be looked at as an amount or a pre-determined destination.
The highest outcomes will come about through following your feelings. Up until now, people have been taught to think of outcomes as goals. You were told you had to set goals and write them down so they are visible and in front of you all the time.
How we get these insights The italic text within this post is the channeled information from Linda’s spirit guide angels….
The problem with setting goals is that they are a destination set with intention by your brain, your head, and your thinking.
Now, we see that when people can’t accomplish their goals, they give up. They don’t devote enough time to the goal, and they doubt themselves. They doubt that they’ll ever have all that money, or that job they want, or that partner they want, so the goal gets forgotten.
The other issue is that when you set a goal it becomes static. Goals are rarely ever hit or accomplished exactly as planned. What happens when you fall short of your goal, or if you overshoot your goal?
Goals are actually achieved through your feelings. How will you feel if you accomplish what you want? These outcomes are felt with the heart and not the head. By picturing how you will feel when you accomplish something you take the pressure off of hitting a specific number or getting to a certain point. If you continue to set goals as outcomes you will feel one of two feelings; accomplishment or disappointment. If you leave the accomplishment open-ended you won’t be disappointed.
As you work toward this accomplishment you can more easily feel positive about what you’re doing rather than beating yourself up by thinking you’re not doing enough. Most people take the opposite approach and not only doubt themselves if they can accomplish something or not but listen to their friends and family who tell them things like you will never be able to do that, or you are not smart enough to pull that off, or you are kidding yourself because you don’t have the time to do that. After all, look how busy you already are. That is how they influence your feelings about accomplishing success in your life, whatever it is.
They distract you with the verbal walls they put around you…
making you actually start to believe you aren’t good enough, or smart enough, or have the time to do it in this lifetime.
- Setting goals that are made with your head become static in the future.
- You rarely achieve the goal as you originally planned it.
- Setting goals cause the wrong types of feelings and responses.
- When you look to accomplish something and make that commitment with your heart instead of your head it becomes a process each day.
You just can’t just wait for someday when the goal was achieved and then feel good, you must feel good about the process of getting there. It’s like driving to a beach vacation destination and complaining all the way there, rather than thinking about how much you will enjoy it once you get there. You will drive yourself into much stress if you keep thinking of goals as outcomes and a destination. It is always going on in the present moment as long as you are thinking about it and thinking about how great it will feel once it happens.”
- Outcomes can’t be amounts or destinations.
- Once you set a goal it becomes fixed in future.
- Once you make a decision to accomplish something from the heart it all becomes feelings and the pressure is released
How It Works: You’ve heard the quote, “Do what you love and the rest will follow.” When I was 19-years-old I got a life-changing message from my Guides that informed me my marriage would not work out and it was time for me to make my own way. Although this was sad and took me by surprise I followed “their” guidance and immediately pursued my passion of designing homes and building them. Without any formal education who was I to think I was worthy of such a grand plan? That’s the point, I didn’t think about it at all, it was my heart’s desire that I was following. The urge was so strong to do this that doubt never entered into the picture. It wasn’t always easy but that never foiled my successes. Following my guidance made everything easier and much more fun. So, speaking from experience, I can tell you that the combination of following your guidance along with trusting those great feelings to give you direction will get you much farther than any goal you had in mind. ~ Linda Deir
Follow your feelings and listen for the truth to guide you to a destination that will exceed your expectations. Angel Coaching with Linda … guidance from “those” who know you best!