Who Will You Be Five Years from Now? | Linda Deir -author, speaker, transition coach, trainer

There is only one “you” and that person exists only in the “Now.”

People look outside of themselves to improve. Looking for things like a better job, more money, or a better relationship; feeling once they get these things, they will be happy or an improved person.

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They seek something outside of themselves, something they believe they lack. They try to do things to become a different person.

They also look to Gurus to make them a different person.

Herein lies the problem. You can make a statement that you want something. Wanting is a self-fulfilling situation. You may want more money because you feel you don’t have enough, however, when you want, you live from a position of lack. What you get when you want something is more wanting. You never seem to have enough of what it is you want more of.

People also try to do things to make themselves better. They try to lose weight or try to quit smoking. Trying only leads to more trying.  Looking for a better job or a better mate only leads to more looking. You are missing the real point.

You must forget about the future and consider “the Now.”

It is always now. Your past was once the now and your future, when it gets here, will be the now. So, concentrate on the now instead of wanting and only getting more wanting. Choose to accept something you have now.

If you want a better job, say instead, “I choose to accept the job I presently have and do my best at it.” Once you do your best, you will be promoted and respected for what you do now – every day. Rewards will come your way because you are a valuable employee. Valuable employees get promotions and have jobs come looking for them.

Instead of saying you must try to earn more money, be grateful for the money you have. Being grateful brings gratitude and not a feeling of lack. People who are grateful are rewarded with more of what they are grateful for.

Instead of looking to the outside for something better or something you lack, accept what you have and go from there.

If you accept with love what you have, your life fills up with acceptable things. Being in “the Now” doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be expecting the best for the future. You just focus on things you already have, are already grateful for, and the things you accept about yourself now. Then, expect to have more of them.

Try to eliminate any filters that tell you that you don’t deserve something, won’t be able to get something, or that you possess something that would keep things from you. This places an emotional attachment on all those things that you accept, choose to have and are grateful for. Then, the actions you take to improve yourself as a person are all in line with the universe because you are already an accepting, grateful person.”


  • If you want, you will get more wanting. If you try, you will have a trying life. If you go out looking, you will never see it because everything you are is here now. Accept it, choose it, and be grateful for it.
  • People will see that by just making the slightest change in their observation of themselves, they can become much more than they could have become.
  • The next time you hear yourself saying, “I want this” or “I’ll try” to do something, change it to “I am that person already” or “I’m going to improve on that which I already have and am grateful for.”

How It Works: Why do people go outside of themselves to seek out a Guru to transform their lives? It’s because they believe they need someone to “hold their hand” and show them the way to their future. They want someone to teach them how to take control of their life, their career, their wealth, and their relationships. Most of the time Gurus have the same problems, only larger. More money just means more money and not fewer problems with money. A new job is just a new place to park your car and go to work. People stop seeking Gurus once they realize that they are the…G-U-R-U…Gee-You-Are-You! You are your own Guru and the only person who can help you become a more accepting, grateful, and content person. Your Spirit Guides and Angels can help you with this, but you still call the shots because it’s your life you came here to live. Your “free will” determines your fate. ~ Linda Deir

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