Loneliness and Isolation | Linda Deir -author, speaker, transition coach, trainer

“There are no more clans.

Communities no longer come together as a group who support and take care of each other. Society has forced people into isolation.

Modern technology reinforces the isolation. This technology model is designed to make you feel connected, while at the same time, you feel isolated and alone. Isolation and the lack of personal interaction have trained you to judge others. This control over how you act and think only works on people who are disconnected from everything.

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Humanity has moved from groups who had power and who supported each other to forced individuality where you have no support. It cuts you off by making you feel alone and that nobody cares. You became paranoid and judgmental of others who you do not know at all. You are afraid to take risks because you have no support, resulting in stress, mental illness, addictions, and diseases that are now rampant. Worst of all, this has become your social norm.

Without a support system, you will continue to suffer and struggle. This results in living a fear-based life … and you experience the ultimate disconnection.

It’s an illusion to believe that you are alone. You have never been alone. We have always been with you, guiding you but you must slow down long enough to realize it.

You were connected to us when you first arrived here.

It was these outside influences that broke your bond between us. Now, it’s more important than ever to reconnect to us because your entire world is suffering from loneliness and isolation.

When you are disconnected you can’t see it – you can feel it but cannot see it, yet. It’s like being in a fog that you adapted to long ago because everyone else did. When you reconnect to us and follow our guidance, coming out of the fog will feel dramatic and bright. You will want to help everyone see this, but that’s not how it works. They must reach out to you through their fog of loneliness and isolation. Just like when you were where they are, they need to come to their own realizations by seeing it for themselves. That’s when they will start feeling the connection again, so they are capable of following their guidance. That’s when they will come your way naturally.”


  • People used to live in clans where everyone looked out for everyone else.
  • Society developed a model to break up these clans, these communities, and families, turning them into isolated individuals.
  • In this aloneness, people have become afraid, paranoid, and judgmental about people and things they have no connection to.

HOW IT WORKS: In childhood, I was a member of a family who was all disconnected and only together out of obligation. They were not supportive; they were cold and resentful of having to live up to what was socially expected of them. The only thing that got me through that childhood was the connection I had to my Spirit Family, my real family, where I came from. As a result of always having access to their guidance, I was learning to live in 2 worlds. I learned not to take things personally and see things and people for what and who they were. There was no sugar coating anything by making excuses for their bad behavior in order to cover up my shame about them. I appeared to be isolated and lonely, but I was not, I remained connected to my Spirit Guides and Angels. No one ever knew that I was mastering living in two worlds at the same time. That’s how I came out of that abusive childhood unscathed – I remained connected.

Your Spirit Guides and Angels are your clan, your support, and your eternal family here and always. So, make the connection! ~ Linda Deir

A mix of Spirituality and Unexpected Psychology … Linda Deir Transition Coach … guidance from “those” who know you best!