What it Feels Like to be Disconnected from your Guides | Linda Deir -author, speaker, transition coach, trainer

“You are always receiving guidance from your Spirit Guides.

Most people don’t realize what guidance is or where it’s coming from. It’s easy to think that this guidance is just random thoughts popping into your head. This makes it easy to dismiss. However, if everything you are receiving is guidance then why are you not recognizing it as such?

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You receive guidance in many ways; in your dreams, or something someone says to you, the lyrics of a song at just the right time, or maybe even you connect with our messages telepathically. These are not something you are making up. These are all important messages being delivered to you by intention from us. Now, hearing the guidance and acting on it right away are different issues. Most of the time it’s the fear in your life that disconnects you from acting on the guidance. You first start to doubt what it is you are receiving, your life doesn’t change, and doubt becomes fear. Fear is what keeps you frozen and unable to make the decision to follow your guidance. It all resides in your disconnection to your Spirit Guides and your Higher-Self.

If you don’t recognize that you have Spirit Guides, then intentionally listening for what they are telling you is probably not a priority in your life. This is why the pain won’t stop. This is why you can make the best intentions or resolutions to change, but nothing ever changes. In fact, life becomes more difficult and less enjoyable.

Making the connection to your Spirit Guides is the most important thing you can do in your life.

You need to reestablish this connection that you had when you first came here as a baby. A baby, or new person, is never more connected to their guidance than when they first arrive. This life then derails the soul and knocks it off track, causing the child to learn things that are wrong. The consequence is that they unwittingly base all their decisions on that early trauma throughout the rest of their lives. No wonder people are so off-track and disconnected. The first thing you must do to re-establish your connection to guidance is to accept that it’s happening all the time, all around you, in multiple ways. Next, you must start being aware of it, looking for it … was that guidance I just received? … or was that an idea that just popped into my head? It could have been both. It depends on how it’s perceived. If you receive guidance and only acknowledge the guidance that pleases you it’s probably not guidance, rather, it’s how you want the future to turn out and would like it to be.

Receiving guidance requires that you stop the panic in your life and get calm. Unwind, bringing you into the present moment. Then, breathe deeply and relax so you can hear the guidance – listening with intention. What you hear you must write down in your journal otherwise your Spirit Guides may have to remind you several times before you see it as guidance and not random thoughts. It’s only by writing it down that you bring it into this world. That’s when you will start to see the programs and patterns that have created your life so far, as opposed to the guidance we are always sending to you.

Here’s what we do when you haven’t been listening …

Even though you may receive much guidance you still have free will and your Spirit Guides cannot force you to follow any of it. When they see you doing this, that is avoiding the guidance you need to follow, they will bring more guidance in the form of challenges, warning signs, and putting up red flags right in front of you to let you know you are going in the wrong direction. If you still don’t listen, your life becomes something like driving the wrong way on the expressway. Eventually, you get hit head-on and you finally stop. Don’t let it get to this point.

If your life isn’t working out how you had anticipated, then you know that it’s time for you to open up and listen for all our messages. If you don’t, you will continue to feel this disconnection to your Spirit Guides and the hole in your soul that can’t ever seem to get filled will grow.”


  • The pain in your life will not end until you stop and listen.
  • Everything you are receiving and thinking about is guidance.
  • It’s even more important that you write everything down, so you can see the patterns that have taken you off course.

How It Works: People always have questions they seek answers to. This relentless stream of questions makes you feel anxious. Eventually, you find yourself in a constant state of worry and doubt. Your life becomes a struggle and the connection to your Spirit Guides is broken. Here’s how your Spirit Guides get your attention when you aren’t listening all because you do not realize that you are not alone and always are being guided, it has been impossible for them to reach you. After attempting to repeatedly get your attention, your Spirit Guides had no choice but to start sending you questions. These questions led you back to the guidance. It’s just another way of getting you there. When you have a question you will think it came from you, which is why this is so effective. This is their only way of reaching you, pivot and make the needed course correction. Have no doubt, you are always being guided.

Following your guidance will produce a much better life than you could have done on your own. Once you know how it feels to be disconnected from your Spirit Guides, you can practice calming down, breathing, and listening. Having a connection to your Guides is a by-product of you being present. ~ Linda Deir

A mix of Spirituality and Unexpected Psychology … Linda Deir Transition Coach … guidance from “those” who know you best!